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Some moments stay with us.


A conversation. A decision. A question. A mistake. A sentence in a book. A quiet realization on an ordinary Tuesday.


They don't always seem significant when they happen. Only later do we begin to understand what they meant to us, and how that meaning influences what we believe, how we lead, and who we're becoming.


We don't get to choose every dot in our lives. But we do get to choose which ones we connect.


These essays are my reflections as a leader still connecting them.

The First Morning

There is something special about the first day of school.


I know that’s probably true everywhere. But after more than a decade of first days in our school district, I have come to believe there is something particularly special about the way our community begins a new year.


At one of our elementary schools, teachers gather outside the building to welcome their new students. Families fill the lawn, pictures are taken, hugs are exchanged, and before anyone walks through the doors, the entire school says the Pledge of Allegiance together.


At our other elementary school, students, parents, community members, police officers, and firefighters gather for a special flag-raising ceremony to mark the beginning of another year.


I've watched these traditions unfold year after year. They haven't changed much. But this year, I saw something in them I hadn't thought about quite the same way before.


Trust.


Not new trust. Trust that has been built over years.


It was visible in the parents sending their children toward our doors. In the community members who showed up even though they didn't have a child starting school that morning. In the police officers and firefighters standing alongside our teachers. In the excitement and optimism surrounding our kids.


Standing there, I couldn't help but think about what all of that represented.


They believe in us.


They believe something good is going to happen to these kids when they walk through our doors. More than that, they believe we can help their children do extraordinary things once they're inside.


That kind of trust doesn't happen just because we ask for it.


It’s built.


Built over generations by teachers who care deeply for children, by staff members who notice when someone needed help, by principals who pick up the phone, by families who partner with schools, and by a community that consistently invests in its children.


Thousands of moments, most of them probably ordinary when they happened, have accumulated into what I was watching on the first day of school: Trust made visible.


There’s a leadership lesson in that.


We sometimes think trust is built in the big moments. A new initiative. An important speech. A major decision.


Usually, it isn't.


It’s built much more quietly, one interaction and one decision at a time. Do what you say you're going to do. Show up. Listen. Care. Deliver. Then do it again tomorrow.

Eventually, consistency becomes credibility. And credibility becomes trust.


But trust isn't something we get to keep simply because it has been built.


Trust must be stewarded.


Those of us leading and working in our schools inherited some of the trust we benefit from today from the people who came before us.


That is an incredible advantage and an incredible responsibility. Because every interaction gives us an opportunity to add to that trust or take something away from it.


The traditions on the first day celebrate what has already been built. The hundreds of days that follow determine what happens to it next.


And perhaps most importantly, trust creates possibility.


When parents trust teachers, when teachers trust leaders, when schools trust families, and when a community believes deeply in its schools, we can do more together. We can challenge kids. Try something different. Take risks. Change something that has always been done a certain way. Dream a little bigger about what might be possible for our students.


Trust isn't simply something that makes a school community feel good. It creates the conditions for people to do extraordinary things.


As I watched our students make their way through the doors, I found myself looking at the parents still standing outside. I wondered what they hoped would happen on the other side.


Maybe this will be the year their child discovers a love of reading.

Finds a best friend.

Realizes she's good at math.

Finds the courage to raise his hand.

Discovers something he didn't know existed.

Feels known.

Gets pushed beyond what she thought she could do.

Begins to imagine a future that looks a little bigger than it did before.


Those parents can't possibly know everything that will happen after their children walk through our doors. Neither can we. But they believe in what is possible there.


Eventually, the pictures are taken. The flag reaches the top of the pole. Parents head home. Police officers and firefighters return to work. And by the next morning, there isn't a crowd outside. But the trust is still there.


And now we get another year to build on it. To protect what others helped create. To strengthen it through the ordinary interactions that fill our days. And, most importantly, to use it to help our kids accomplish things none of us can fully imagine on that first morning.


What an extraordinary privilege. And what an extraordinary responsibility.


I wonder if this will become a dot I’ll choose to connect.


8.19.2026

Make People Happy

It's my favorite presentation of the year.


Every August, before students return and before classrooms fill with activity again, I have the opportunity to welcome our staff back for another school year. It's one of the few moments when every person in our district is together in the same room, preparing to begin the same journey.


This year, I asked them to consider an unlikely comparison.


What if great schools have something in common with great amusement parks?


No, I don't believe schools should be all fun and games. 


Learning is challenging. Growth is often uncomfortable. The purpose of school is far more than entertainment.


But the best amusement parks aren't really just in the ride business. They're actually in the experience business.


As I prepared my opening day message, I spent a day with the general manager of Kings Island, the amusement park just a few miles from our district. I expected to learn about operations, leadership, and customer service.


Instead, I walked away thinking about one simple sentence.


He told me that every employee, regardless of their position, has the same job. Whether they're operating rides, checking tickets at the front gate, serving food, sweeping sidewalks, running games, or leading the organization, every person shares one responsibility.


Make people happy.


At first, it sounded almost too simple. But the more I thought about it, the more profound it became. Every interaction contributes to the experience guests will remember long after they leave. So every team member has the responsibility to make that experience just a little better.


I couldn't stop thinking about that because schools aren't no different.

Our jobs and role vary. We teach lessons, drive buses, prepare lunches, answer phones, coach teams, clean classrooms, and greet families at the front door. But every one of us contributes to the experience our students have while they're with us.


And every interaction tells a child something.


You belong here.

You're important.

We're glad you're here.

This is a place where you'll discover what you're capable of.


Or it tells them the opposite. 


Think about your own life. Have you ever done your best work in a place where you felt invisible? Where you didn't feel welcome? Where you never believed you belonged?


Neither have I.


We do our best work when we feel valued, connected, and trusted. 


Author and researcher Shawn Achor argues that we often have it backwards. We assume success creates happiness, when in reality, positive emotions almost always come first. When people feel hopeful, connected, and engaged, they're more likely to learn, persevere, solve problems, and succeed.


That's true for our students in schools, too. Joy isn't the absence of challenge. It's what gives them the confidence to embrace it.


As I finished my opening day message, one thought kept coming back. Great schools aren't defined by a single teacher, principal, or program. They're defined by the experience every one of us creates together.


Because regardless of our respective roles, we all contribute to the same experience. An experience where every child can feel welcomed, challenged, encouraged, and, yes, lots of joy. 


That’s when my message became clear.


When every one of us takes responsibility for creating that kind of experience, something happens.


It becomes amazing here.


And to think, it all started with a day at Kings Island. Sometimes the most meaningful leadership lessons come from the places we least expect.


I wonder if this will become a dot I'll choose to connect.


8.12.2026

Blank Pages

It happens every August.


Before teachers return. Before students fill our classrooms. Before the buses roll and the hallways come alive. 


I find myself sitting quietly with a blank page.


Soon it will become the agenda for my first meeting with our leadership team. A few days later, it will become the message I share with our staff as we begin another school year together.


But for now, it's simply a blank page waiting for the first mark.


Every year, that blank page reminds me of something Disney Imagineer Marty Sklar wrote. There are two ways to look at a blank sheet of paper. It can be the most frightening thing in the world because you have to make the first mark. Or it can be the greatest opportunity in the world because you get to make the first mark.


I've always loved that thought. 


Leadership is filled with blank pages. A new position. A difficult conversation. An idea no one has tried before. An action plan. A new school year.


And every meaningful beginning starts the same way.


With the opportunity to decide what we want this moment to become.


That's why I've always loved beginnings. There's an energy that comes with them. Nothing has changed yet, but everything feels possible. The routines haven't settled in. The obstacles haven't appeared. The doubts haven't had time to take hold, and for a brief moment, the future exists only in our imagination.


Leaders need these moments.


We spend so much of our lives responding to what already exists. Solving problems. Managing challenges. Making decisions. Those responsibilities matter. But leadership isn't only about responding to today's reality. It's also about imagining tomorrow's possibility.


One of the greatest responsibilities we have as leaders is to imagine a better future before anyone else can see it. We need to believe something can become better before there's evidence that it will be. And then we need to help others believe it too and invite them to help us build it.


Over the past two years, my focus has been exactly that through the development of our new strategic plan, Destination NEXT.


Teachers, staff, students, families, Board members, and community members gathered around a blank page with me and responded to a simple question: What can come NEXT?


This strategic plan that we created matters. It comes on the heels of our incredibly successful twelve-year plan, Destination 2026. We need to keep our momentum going.


But this new plan is not what excites me most. Rather what excites me most is the imagination behind it. The conversations. The hope. The willingness to believe our best work may still be ahead of us.


As another school year begins, I hope I never lose the excitement of standing in front of a blank page. Because every blank page is an opportunity waiting for someone willing to make the first mark. 


I wonder if this moment will become a dot I’ll choose to connect.


8.1.2026

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